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Moving for You: A Tribute to Empathy

by Suzanne Guillette

Moving, for You: A Tribute to Empathy is an improvisational movement piece Suzanne, and an ensemble she galvanized, created in homage to a collection of other people’s personal stories of grief and loss. It celebrates the ways in which we, as interconnected, empathic beings, can shoulder one another’s burdens. As story contributor Lindsay McKinnon eloquently described it, “Suzie is ‘singing over bones’ and allowing those painful places to live and breathe, dance and be free.” 

Read Suzanne’s description of this project below and for more information on her work, visit: www.suzanne-guillette.com


Years ago, a minister I met liberated me from my complicated grief over September 11, a tragedy I hadn’t allowed myself to shed tears for, by telling me a touching story about his daughter’s response to September 11: She cried for three days straight. I had an instant, visceral understanding that this girl, who lived on the other side of the world and had no personal connection to the events of that day, had cried for those of us who couldn’t. My ensuing revelation was that there was no “right” way to do grief. I’d previously believed that there unwritten rules about what was appropriate and what wasn’t when grieving a pain that wasn’t “personal.” I’d many times convinced myself that I didn’t have a right to mourn. But pain is pain. And that minister’s daughter had opened her empathic channel to feel. Her reaction served as a reminder to me: We are never alone in our grief.

Martha Graham once said, “The body says what words cannot.”  I wanted to share the wisdom that the minister had shared with me, and I realized that to do so, I needed to use my body, to dance through grief. I had thought plenty about grief and loss, but thinking is not feeling. And when we cut ourselves off from our feelings, pain gets trapped in the body, causing suffering and disconnection. The body must then also be the instrument for release. 

In September 2016, I collected 30 stories of sorrow, loss, and trauma from strangers and friends—stories of tragic deaths, of old and heavy burdens, of life-changing diagnoses, of devastating divorces, and of struggles with mental health. In the studio, I read the stories one by one, set an intention of healing, and then moved through the pain as the camera rolled. Instead of working from choreography, I focused on the feelings that came up and let myself be danced. To represent the contributors’ stories, the voiceover includes excerpts from some of the stories. Each story contributor is a collaborator on the project. One anonymous contributor wrote that she hoped together we could create something healing that would be cathartic for others, in ways we can’t know or imagine, creating a ripple effect of healing. 

In May 2017, the project stalled: I had the original footage, but hadn’t found the right editor to finish it. At the same time, my cousin and dear friend Karen, a powerhouse in every way, was actively dying from Stage IV cancer. In those months and the months following her death, Moving, for You crossed my mind a lot. The project came from the idea that we are never alone in our grief, but after Karen’s passing, there were days I couldn’t summons the energy to get off my couch or pick up the phone, never mind finish the project. I was isolating. 

Luckily, in August 2017, I stumbled across the site of a talented filmmaker, Austin Wideman, who agreed to collaborate on the film and suggested he reshoot it from scratch. So in November 2017, we went back to the same studio with the same intention of moving through the pain at the heart of these stories. The shoot was markedly different this time around, though. My grief over Karen’s death, still raw, allowed me to connect more deeply with the feelings and humanity the stories conveyed. I realized I couldn’t have finished the project before. Given my recent loss, I understood more deeply how to lean into grief, and how to find healing in its universality. 

Click below to read some of the stories that animate Moving, for You, an offering, from us to you.  

Moving, for You

Gratitude to Lynn Catherine Goodchild, 1976-2001; Karen Walsh Rullman, 1975-2017; Jordan Blake Watts, 1993-2013

  • Directed, Shot, and Edited by Austin Wideman
  • Produced and Conceived by Suzanne Guillette
  • Music Anamorphic by Lights & Motion
  • Narrated by Sam Breslin-Wright, Suzanne Guillette, Mark O’Connell and Suzanne Smith
  • Calligraphy by Erin Edwards of  Amorosa5  
  • Dancing by Wah-Ming Chang, Megan Curet of Curet Performance Project, Suzanne Guillette and Rob Thompson with tiny dancers
  • Location Candy Studio, New York City
  • Bracelets and Pendant Generously Donated by Alex and Ani
  • Special thanks to Kate Angus, Roselyn Berry, Susan Y. Chi, Heather DeAtley, Kezie, Jennifer Gnisci, Magda Govia, Ira Green, George Grenley, Philip Kennedy-Grant, Jack Lindholm, VL, CL, Bruce A. Mason, Lindsay McKinnon, Carolyn Mickelson, Mark O’Connell, Laurel Paretta, Linda Thomas, MW and anonymous contributors;  and Karen Andrade, Sam Breslin-Wright, Adrian Briscoe, Robyn Carey and ENDPAIN, Celia Castevens, Wah-Ming Chang, Teju Cole, Megan Curet, Phoebe Damrosch, Ophira Edut, Erin Edwards, Ashley Farland, Jennifer Farmer, Alice Forbes,Ishtar Govia, Mary Ann Guillette, Ray Guillette, Ted Hartley, Hazel, Annie Ide, Becca Kannapell, Rachel and Matt Kelley, Sheba Remy Kharbanda, Robin Kirman, Amy M. and Alex and Ani, Travis Mauck, Anna Mello, Taylar Nunes McDonald, David Rogers, Todd Rullman, Morgan Sispoidis, Julia Sisto, Andreas Smith, Jeanne Smith, Suzanne Smith, Nick Smith, Diana Spechler, Alex Poots and Kathryn Spellman, Suzana Stankovic, Kristin Sudeikis, Rob Thompson, Casta Urbina, Jennifer Vanderbes, Chloe Walker, Emily Rose Williams and especially Austin Wideman. 

        Thank you, thank you, thank you.